Ask anything about the sixteen adornments — what they mean, where they came from, how they change from one region to the next. If your family and your partner’s follow different traditions, say so below and answers will cover both.
This is about meaning and heritage, not about how anyone should look — you won’t get styling advice here, and nothing suggests you need to wear all sixteen.
Or start with one of these
Regional practice varies a great deal, and families differ within every tradition — if what you read here doesn’t match how your family does it, your family isn’t wrong.